Carol M. Crim

Jun 25, 1952 — Nov 7, 2026

Herkimer, New York

Carol M. Crim, age 74, formally of Ilion, NY passed away peacefully and gained her angel wings on November 7, 2026.

Carol was born on June 25, 1952, in Watertown, NY to the late Jean (LaVenture) and John Reed. Carol was educated in Little Falls, NY and spent her entire life in the Mohawk Valley. On June 3, 1972, she was united in marriage to Larry Crim. Together they shared many years of laughter and memories that will forever remain a special part of her story. She was of Catholic Faith and loved to attend church services. Throughout Carol’s life she was employed by Duofold factory in Ilion, NY for many years, Lasalle Labs in Little Falls, NY as well as Burger King on the NYS thruway.

Carol was an avid bingo player, and you could find her at every bingo hall there was. She also loved a good lottery scratch off and took first place in many bowling events too. Carol lived life to the fullest, even during her most difficult times. She enjoyed simple pleasures such as sitting around the table having coffee and chatting with friends. She had a contagious laughter and could brighten up the room with her presence. You could find her at any given time doing the polka dance and singing her favorite songs.

She is survived by her daughter, Debora (Vincent) Barbano of Ilion, NY. Her daughter was her caregiver, constant companion and biggest source of love and support. She was Carol’s voice and strongest advocate for many years. The two were truly two peas in a pod, sharing a special bond that went far beyond words. They were inseparable and the love they shared was something truly special. She is also survived by her beloved son, Brian Reed of Utica, NY who brought her great joy and laughter. Her granddaughters Kayla (Mike) Champagne of Herkimer, NY and Megan (Cody) Birmingham of Leonardsville, NY who she cherished so much. Her great grandchildren, Kayden and Laikynn Birmingham who always put a smile on her face. She is also predeceased by her sisters, Mary Lafountain and Donna Reed.

A huge thank you to her extended family on third floor at Folts Brook Center. For many years, she called this her home, where she spent an important chapter of her life surrounded by caregivers, familiar faces, and those who became a part of her journey.

Relatives and friends are invited to calling hours from 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., on Thursday, November 19, 2026, at the Enea & Ciaccia Family Funeral Home, 4309 Acme Road, Ilion, 13357. A funeral service will follow at 4:00 p.m.

Carol's obituary was lovingly composed by her family. 

The family has entrusted Carol's final wishes to the Enea & Ciaccia Family Funeral Home, 4309 Acme Road, Ilion, NY (315) 894-8000, Enea, Ciaccia & Applegate Family Funeral Directors. Online notes of sympathy may be left at www.eneafamily.com. 

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Thursday, November 19, 2026

2:00 - 4:00 pm (Eastern time)

Enea & Ciaccia Family Funeral Home

4309 Acme Rd, Ilion, NY 13357

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Thursday, November 19, 2026

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4309 Acme Rd, Ilion, NY 13357

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